For me it's one of the top main reasons why I use FreeBSD:
NO AUTOMATIC UPDATES by default
I really hate it, if there eventually popping up unasked windows, telling you everyday second day, sometimes more often "new updates are available" and then keep nagging you until you've installed them (with reboot) or just reboot all by themselves; always extremly important, very urgent and always security issues..."if you do not install this update immediately your computer will die a horrific death!" - and very likely something is changed in the look and feel, or your settings are resetted to default... because patches, updates und upgrades are wildely mixed up.
One cannot imagine how I hate that.
FreeBSD is very flexible and extremely modular, I decide, what I want, when I want it, how I want it.
The second benefit of FreeBSD against Linux is:
Installation/updates are not only very easy, either by ports or pkg, but it works!
So many times I've tried to install something under Linux...always the same:
...grind...grind....grind...grind...Warning - Warning - Warning - Error - Error - Error - Aborted.
And then there a different packaging tools depending on what Linux... in fact that's what a Linux distri is primarly all about:
Which packaging tool you're using.
Do not underestimate the next point:
Under FreeBSD I also can
downgrade.
There are situations where for what reasons ever the new version is not working properly, or something else is not working anymore....
On other systems you'll just face the decision: wait for other updates (and hope it will work then) or do a complete new reinstallation of your complete system - execpt the not wanted to be updated package ?
(okay, I admit: I waisted way too much time with Windows... ?)
On FreeBSD I just say: downgrade, and I can stick with my old versions until there are better (or all) updates.
Because FreeBSD seeks to have consistent versions of system and packages.
Under Linux I often have the feeling there are many different vast mobs of anarchists and anybody does what he likes, when he's in the mood, or not - chaos!
However, one may discuss about, what software needs to be updated and who wants to stay with obsolete version or even what obsolete is.
In my opinion anything with internetconnection needs to be always at the newest version available, but for the rest: keep your touchy fingers off my stuff!
For example for some purposes I use xfig. A great tool. No updates since... 1873 a.D. ..? Doesn't matter. It's perfect the way it is, has not internetconnection, so what I need updates for?
But however who sees it, under FreeBSD after all it is not my
responsibilty what happens on my machine only, but it's also my
decision.
I am the master over my slave the machine. Not vice versa!
Sorry for becoming a bit off topic, but I'm always a little bit worried when people compare FreeBSD with other systems, and of course this wasn't the actual point here, but I just wanted to emphasize:
"Don't try to change FreeBSD in some kind of another Linux. Let it be as is is!"