Your reported synchronous write results (512 or 4K) seem quite in line with
Intel Optane DC P4801X Review 100GB M.2 NVMe SSD Log Option
Wonder under what circumstances these claimed +10% gains have been measured ...
Most likely someone somewhere tested a particular case and it became received wisdom loop cited around an ever widening circle seemingly growing ever more credible by the number of citations discoverable. Though the firmware reporting "Good" and "Best" performance for 512 or 4k LBA formats certainly would seem to validate the premise. There's likely some basis for it to have gotten into intel's annotations other than a random blog post, but who knows.
Anyhoo, the little DC sticks with supercaps are pretty awesome cache devices. It feels a bit like the death of the Concorde or the SR-71: the future died a little. Hopefully, some entity with a bit more marketing savvy than Intel will bridge the void eventually.
I've got 10x 800-GB 2.5 SAS 12G SSDs configured as raidz2 and a bit slowed by aes-256gcm/blake3 and compression=on, but that array yields (quick test) write: IOPS=7351, BW=459MiB/s.
The optane mirror, not striped, yields write: IOPS=10.4k, BW=652MiB/s with compression=on
a tmpfs RAM disk yields write: IOPS=21.1k, BW=1,318MiB/s
So... yah, optane FTW. It may be a long time before we have access to any new storage tech quite so flexibly awesome.